While most my posts have been about my vacation and adventures that I had around LA, this one will be a bit different. It will be just a bit personal, but also a bit vague or subtweet, to say the least.
If you haven’t already lost me there, this will basically the story of how I met a friend online — and while in Los Angeles — finally met them in person. I’ll have more on our actual meeting part in a third post, but, this one is all about the story of the friendship. It is also the story of what lead to — and what I consider to be — one of the best friendships I’ve ever had.
Alright, so enough intro. Time to dig in.
If you’ve got attention to detail, you might have noticed me mention this mysterious person as “LA Friend” throughout my blogs so far. Well, that’s the person that this entire post is about. But, to preserve her identity, I won’t use her actual name. She’ll just have to stay anonymous, but I do hope she finds and reads this.
Get your popcorn ready.
So, four years ago, right around this month, I was sitting at my computer browsing through Tumblr. That platform might be dead now, but it was a big thing back then. And, if you know me well, you know that, I’m a big Mets fan.
Just so happens I had been following the “#Mets” tag on that platform. The Mets had just lost a big series against the Chicago Cubs, and well, I was pissed. I saw quite a few posts on Tumblr about this loss, and messaged people to chat about it and complain about the team — mainly to and try and expand my following. As is typical, not everyone responds. But “LA Friend” did.
We ended up exchanging messages about the team and the series and such, and had an almost instant connection. Almost everyday our inboxes were full of Mets-related messages.
Many people had messaged me on Tumblr before, but I never really met anyone like “LA Friend” before. We both shared a big common bond for the Mets, and we had the same thoughts about the team. Everything I had to share or think about about the Mets, she did too. It was like she was my doppelganger.
But there was also something that else made her unique. You already know it because of how I labeled her here, but she was a Mets fan living in Los Angeles.
Well, that didn’t stop our growing friendship. The time difference was only three hours, right?
She ended up responding to most my messages. I now forget how long it was, but eventually, I asked her if we could move our chats outside Tumblr due to the time differences between us.
I really was enjoying talking this mysterious person, and I wanted to chat with to her more. And, also make sure I wasn’t being catfished (shout out to you, MTV!) Turns out I wasn’t.
Over the next few months, I started talking to “LA Friend” on WeChat. She happily agreed to talk to me outside of Tumblr, and this wasn’t a forced thing. I didn’t have her actual phone number yet, but it was still a place we could chat. Boy was I glad that I did.
The more we started to chat on WeChat, the more we found out that we had a lot more in common than the Mets. We had similar dynamics and lives. We even came up with our own code name for our friendship, which, well, I won’t share here.
We started to live chat games together, and talk about foods, TV, school, jobs and the usual stuff you mention when you try and get to know someone for the first time. We shared so much in common that the friendship started to grow. The more we talked, the more closer we became. The more we found out about each other, the more we discovered about we had in common. It was an instant bond, and all over baseball.
But it gets better.
Later that same year (it is 2015 to be exact) the New York Mets made a magical run to the playoffs. That’s right. For the first time in forever, the Mets made the MLB playoffs. Naturally, both “LA Friend” and I were happy. I even started a sticky note with all the games we watched together, and how it made a difference in the Mets’ playoff run.
The Mets eventually went on to win the NLCS, and the NLDS. And, all that time through those games, I was live-chatting games with “LA Friend” on WeChat. There was plenty of baseball-related drama in between, which I won’t bring up here, because, well, you probably don’t care. But it was instrumental to our friendship
“LA Friend” and I were convinced that our friendship was magic for the Mets. To me, it was, because, the Mets made the World Series that year. Sadly, though, the Mets didn’t end up winning it all. They lost to Kansas City.
“LA Friend” and I were upset. We had all this fun watching the Mets make it big, and then it came crashing down. In a way, it’s similar to the situation we had met in. We did have each other to bond over the loss though. I told her corny jokes, and everything was okay. 2015 was a fun year for the Mets regardless.
Later that year, I would eventually exchange my phone number with “LA Friend” and we started texting. We also added each other on other social media platforms, just as real life friends would. I got to know her even more, and the friendship started moving to like I knew her in person. We texted every day and such, and again, I was sure that I wasn’t being catfished.
Even though I never heard her voice, or seen her in video it was like we knew each other forever. This kept going for the next three years. As we matured, and grew busy with life and school, we still talked. We remained friends all throughout. “LA Friend” was sometimes closer to me than my actual friends in NYC. We supported each other through thick and thin and through all the drama. And, of course, we kept talking about the Mets (who also scored the Wildcard in 2016, but lost to the Giants.)
The Mets might returned to losing ways in later years, but “LA Friend” and I didn’t give up on our friendship. We kept talking, and talking, and talking about the Mets and more. We eventually exchanged addresses and sent each other gifts. It was like I met here right here in NYC.
So, after going on like this for four years, I finally met LA Friend in person when in Los Angeles. One of my greatest fears is that it would awkward. But was it? That’s my next post.